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Juliet's Ashes


Blog 11 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Expired Rego
I am sitting innocently in my car parked on High Street, talking to Gigi, when a ticket inspector with a big hat turns and looks at my...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jul 6, 20243 min read


Blog 10 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Jamie goes to waterpolo
"I never lose; I either win or I learn." Charley, Gus, and I went to watch Jamie play water polo at the AUT Millennium Pool, where...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 24, 20243 min read


Blog 9 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - A bad egg.
I was walking down Hakanoa Street with a canopy and a carpet of autumn, that close bosom friend of the maturing sun. Suddenly the beauty...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 1, 20243 min read


Blog 8 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Going to church.
To be sane, I must be mad. What I would be, I am not. JKB In Countdown the other day, I stole some blueberries. They were lying in the...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Feb 23, 20245 min read


Blog 7 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Laugh and the world laughs with you.
Last summer, I nearly died, so this summer could only have been an improvement. Every day, as I swam under the smiling sun in the green,...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Feb 5, 20244 min read


Blog 6 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Happy Birthday 2024
On New Year’s Eve, my friend Lil and I drove through the torrential rain to Pakiri to see the new year in with sister Damaris (Adie)...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jan 10, 20243 min read


Blog 5 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Let it be.
Last Christmas, I had all six of my children with me, as well as most of their children. I worked myself to the bone to create a...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jan 2, 20243 min read


Blog 4 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - The Hokitika Way
Daughter Frankie, her daughter Olive, and I are going to Blenheim, then Hokitika as her 2-week stay in Auckland and Leigh draws to a...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Dec 23, 20234 min read


Blog 3 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Don't touch the horse!
Frankie and her baby Olive, nearly two, have come to stay with me at my little cottage in Leigh. They live in Blenheim, where Frankie...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Dec 3, 20235 min read


Blog 2 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Watching the Rugby World Cup Final with my boys
It is hard to watch a grown man fail to kick a ball between two posts and thus seal the fate of mighty warriors while the General looks...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Nov 26, 20233 min read


Blog 1 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - The Heart of the Matter
I received rather alarming news on my return from Paris, saying my arteries are more calcified than 99 out of 100 women aged between 65...

Charles Ogilvie-Lee
Nov 19, 20234 min read


Blog 20. Paris, it's a wrap!
Montmartre I went to Montmartre and stood in the church on top of the hill, which I had gazed at so many evenings while Maryse blew her...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Nov 8, 202310 min read


Blog 19 - Saying goodbye to Maryse.
By loving Maryse, I fell in love with Paris. She was an old enchantress who stalked her prey with charm, played with them for a while,...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Sep 21, 20239 min read


Blog 18 - Escaping Paris! My trip to Sete!
My ex-husband, who wasn't my ex then, and my three younger children lived in the small coastal fishing village of Sete in the south of...

Charles Ogilvie-Lee
Sep 9, 20239 min read


Sugar lumps with Maryse.
I fell in love with Maryse with the kind of love you feel for an innocent creature who loves and seeks love, understanding only that...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 28, 20236 min read


Blog 16 - Falling in love with Maryse
There is a newspaper cutting hanging inside a cupboard in Maryse’s kitchen. It has been very carefully cut out and pasted so that when...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 16, 20236 min read


Blog 15 - My love affair in Paris!
I am now sleeping at Maryse’s apartment with 2,000 books. One day, when I return from school, I see Maryse talking to the people who sell...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 9, 20236 min read


Blog 14 - Au revoir Josette!
Maryse likes me, and I am moving from an arrondissement named after Diderot, the editor of The Encyclopédie, and a hamlet called Reuilly,...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 7, 20237 min read


Blog 13- Versailles , Maryse and beyond.
Versailles is very different from Josette’s house, but in its opulence, it is just as unfriendly. It is a good example of what infinite...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 3, 20236 min read


Blog 12 - "It is a lonely thing eating cooked raw mince alone in Paris."
It is the morning, and I have slept in for the first time. I step out from the metro into a spring day, and I know I should love Paris in...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 2, 20237 min read
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