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Juliet's Ashes


Blog 6 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Happy Birthday 2024
On New Year’s Eve, my friend Lil and I drove through the torrential rain to Pakiri to see the new year in with sister Damaris (Adie)...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jan 10, 20243 min read


Blog 5 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Let it be.
Last Christmas, I had all six of my children with me, as well as most of their children. I worked myself to the bone to create a...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jan 2, 20243 min read


Blog 4 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - The Hokitika Way
Daughter Frankie, her daughter Olive, and I are going to Blenheim, then Hokitika as her 2-week stay in Auckland and Leigh draws to a...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Dec 23, 20234 min read


Blog 3 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Don't touch the horse!
Frankie and her baby Olive, nearly two, have come to stay with me at my little cottage in Leigh. They live in Blenheim, where Frankie...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Dec 3, 20235 min read


Blog 2 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - Watching the Rugby World Cup Final with my boys
It is hard to watch a grown man fail to kick a ball between two posts and thus seal the fate of mighty warriors while the General looks...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Nov 26, 20233 min read


Blog 1 - From a Villa in Grey Lynn - The Heart of the Matter
I received rather alarming news on my return from Paris, saying my arteries are more calcified than 99 out of 100 women aged between 65...

Charles Ogilvie-Lee
Nov 19, 20234 min read


Blog 20. Paris, it's a wrap!
Montmartre I went to Montmartre and stood in the church on top of the hill, which I had gazed at so many evenings while Maryse blew her...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Nov 8, 202310 min read


Blog 19 - Saying goodbye to Maryse.
By loving Maryse, I fell in love with Paris. She was an old enchantress who stalked her prey with charm, played with them for a while,...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Sep 21, 20239 min read


Blog 18 - Escaping Paris! My trip to Sete!
My ex-husband, who wasn't my ex then, and my three younger children lived in the small coastal fishing village of Sete in the south of...

Charles Ogilvie-Lee
Sep 9, 20239 min read


Sugar lumps with Maryse.
I fell in love with Maryse with the kind of love you feel for an innocent creature who loves and seeks love, understanding only that...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 28, 20236 min read


Blog 16 - Falling in love with Maryse
There is a newspaper cutting hanging inside a cupboard in Maryse’s kitchen. It has been very carefully cut out and pasted so that when...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 16, 20236 min read


Blog 15 - My love affair in Paris!
I am now sleeping at Maryse’s apartment with 2,000 books. One day, when I return from school, I see Maryse talking to the people who sell...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 9, 20236 min read


Blog 14 - Au revoir Josette!
Maryse likes me, and I am moving from an arrondissement named after Diderot, the editor of The Encyclopédie, and a hamlet called Reuilly,...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 7, 20237 min read


Blog 13- Versailles , Maryse and beyond.
Versailles is very different from Josette’s house, but in its opulence, it is just as unfriendly. It is a good example of what infinite...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 3, 20236 min read


Blog 12 - "It is a lonely thing eating cooked raw mince alone in Paris."
It is the morning, and I have slept in for the first time. I step out from the metro into a spring day, and I know I should love Paris in...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
Jun 2, 20237 min read


Blog 11 - THE PARTY!
It is the day of the fête. In the morning, I have to clear out of the house so Josette can prepare for the 15 people coming for lunch,...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
May 30, 20237 min read


Blog 10 - The table is set!
On Saturday, before the fete on Sunday, I met my friend Patricia. She is from Sete in the South of France, where Michael, our three boys,...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
May 29, 20235 min read


Blog 9 - Life with the one and only Josette!
The week passes in a sort of daze. I am woken by someone in the bathroom at varying times very early every morning. I don’t know if it's...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
May 26, 20238 min read


Blog 8 - Life in Paris, not quite what I expected!
I wake up at 6 am and go to the bathroom. I'm not sure if anyone is in it, but the light is on. I give a little tap on the door, and a...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
May 22, 202313 min read


Blog 7 - Paris, guess who's arrived!
This morning, I leave for Paris, and I have not slept a wink as the prospect of getting from Berlin to Paris on my own with a...
Ashleigh Ogilvie-Lee
May 15, 20239 min read
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